Hi@melissa It sounds like you’ve already done a bunch of smart exploring, thanks for sharing what’s worked and what hasn’t. If your user role includes the proper export permissions, one option that usually hits the sweet spot between “householded” and “all the fields we need” is the Householded Mailing List export. You’ll find it in the same Export Format dropdown as Standard Text.
After choosing Householded Mailing List, click Customize. You’ll see options to tailor the file for your mail merge, including:
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Householding: choose “Include one record per address” (great for true household mailings).
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Household Label: pick your preferred style (e.g., “The Smith Family”).
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Middle Name: full / initial / omit.
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Checkboxes to Include Phone, Exclude uncertified USPS addresses, and Export address lines 1–3 into separate columns.
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File Type: pick Text File for a tab-delimited file that InDesign’s Data Merge can read; or export to Excel and save as CSV if you prefer.
A couple of quick tips for InDesign, and you might already know this:
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Make sure the first row contains clear field names; that’s what Data Merge uses for placeholders.
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If you need a field that isn’t part of the Householded export, a simple workaround is to export the Householded file and a Standard export keyed by a shared value (e.g., VANID or address), then bring the extra columns over with XLOOKUP/VLOOKUP before you merge.
This lets you keep your designed InDesign template while still getting one row per mailable household and the fields you care about. Hope that helps, and happy merging!
Best,
Torvic Vardamis (he/him/his)
Senior Manager, Professional Services